Non-Stop Drama!
Nov. 20th, 2002 05:58 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
hiddenmuseI swear, it seems like a few of the online communities and message boards have had their share of Drama Queen Syndrome lately.
If it wasn't the en masse emigration from![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-community.gif)
bisexual a few months ago, it's the "he said/she said" taking *everything* personally on the barenaked.net board, or the furor caused by one person's comments in beautifulcurves.
I've said more than enough about the first two, now to deal with the most recent furor-cum-exodus. Someone posted tobeautifulcurves admitting that he was a "fat fetishist". Maybe he just meant that he likes his girls curvier ... or he truly does revere us fat chicks in that ooky s/m club fetish way. That got people up in arms, upset that someone like that (if he was serious) would only be there to prey on the fine ladies of the community. You know, that didn't bother me so much as his comment about how fat chicks give great head. THAT really burned my biscuits.
Thanks for the reminder that as a fat girl, the only way I can keep anyone around is by being able to suck a bowling ball through a knotted garden hose. You know, there are probably fat chicks that hate giving head, and skinny gals that are just about perfect at it. The size of my dress has no bearing on my sexual performance. And when I hear men making comments like that, insinuating that the only way I can keep a man around is by doing the kinky shit no other girl would do, or that all we're good for is sex.
Yeah, I give good head - but it's not because I'm a big girl. And I've never done anything I didn't want to do with any of my partners. Actually, I've been the bossy one, and it didn't require sex to keep anyone by my side.
But what do I know, right? Who'd believe some hotheaded tomboy femme? ;)
If it wasn't the en masse emigration from
bisexual a few months ago, it's the "he said/she said" taking *everything* personally on the barenaked.net board, or the furor caused by one person's comments in beautifulcurves.I've said more than enough about the first two, now to deal with the most recent furor-cum-exodus. Someone posted to
beautifulcurves admitting that he was a "fat fetishist". Maybe he just meant that he likes his girls curvier ... or he truly does revere us fat chicks in that ooky s/m club fetish way. That got people up in arms, upset that someone like that (if he was serious) would only be there to prey on the fine ladies of the community. You know, that didn't bother me so much as his comment about how fat chicks give great head. THAT really burned my biscuits.Thanks for the reminder that as a fat girl, the only way I can keep anyone around is by being able to suck a bowling ball through a knotted garden hose. You know, there are probably fat chicks that hate giving head, and skinny gals that are just about perfect at it. The size of my dress has no bearing on my sexual performance. And when I hear men making comments like that, insinuating that the only way I can keep a man around is by doing the kinky shit no other girl would do, or that all we're good for is sex.
Yeah, I give good head - but it's not because I'm a big girl. And I've never done anything I didn't want to do with any of my partners. Actually, I've been the bossy one, and it didn't require sex to keep anyone by my side.
But what do I know, right? Who'd believe some hotheaded tomboy femme? ;)
