Non-Stop Drama!

[hiddenmuse]

I swear, it seems like a few of the online communities and message boards have had their share of Drama Queen Syndrome lately.

If it wasn't the en masse emigration from bisexual a few months ago, it's the "he said/she said" taking *everything* personally on the barenaked.net board, or the furor caused by one person's comments in beautifulcurves.

I've said more than enough about the first two, now to deal with the most recent furor-cum-exodus. Someone posted to beautifulcurves admitting that he was a "fat fetishist". Maybe he just meant that he likes his girls curvier ... or he truly does revere us fat chicks in that ooky s/m club fetish way. That got people up in arms, upset that someone like that (if he was serious) would only be there to prey on the fine ladies of the community. You know, that didn't bother me so much as his comment about how fat chicks give great head. THAT really burned my biscuits.

Thanks for the reminder that as a fat girl, the only way I can keep anyone around is by being able to suck a bowling ball through a knotted garden hose. You know, there are probably fat chicks that hate giving head, and skinny gals that are just about perfect at it. The size of my dress has no bearing on my sexual performance. And when I hear men making comments like that, insinuating that the only way I can keep a man around is by doing the kinky shit no other girl would do, or that all we're good for is sex.

Yeah, I give good head - but it's not because I'm a big girl. And I've never done anything I didn't want to do with any of my partners. Actually, I've been the bossy one, and it didn't require sex to keep anyone by my side.

But what do I know, right? Who'd believe some hotheaded tomboy femme? ;)

Comments

[saintrigger.livejournal.com]

amen :)

[laynemeyer.livejournal.com]

Which is all well and good, but I have to break this to you. You are not a "big girl." I know, I've seen the picture to prove it. Just because you don't look like the most recent anorexic VS model with fake boobs does not mean that you are a big girl.

Sorry, just had to get that off my chest.

You may go back to your rant now..

[sigmaration.livejournal.com]

I'm with Josh. And I know. I've seen the goods. < g >

And while I might not be a "big girl" anymore... I was. And I hate giving blow jobs. I thank the heavens every day that I am out now and never have to do it again. And I have a feeling I'm bad at it, at least partially because I don't like it. So. There's that. (Good thing I'm good at giving it to the other sex, huh? ;o)

You know a lot. And I love you.

[magenta25.livejournal.com]

I am so glad you posted this because I was reading last night and I must've missed that guys post because I had NO idea what as going on.

I have noticed a bit more drama all over LJ in the past few weeks.