Fuck The Debates (this is about bn.net)

[hiddenmuse]

Yes, I think PETA and Moby are going for overkill this Thanksgiving. Yes, I had the outright chutzpah to say that one can call him/herself a Vegetarian and still eat Fish or Chicken once in a blue moon. So what?

If you're gonna get that niggly and petty over formalities and semantics, does this mean that you're gonna tell me that because I'm sleeping with a woman, I shouldn't call myself "bisexual", but should instead go with "lesbian"? And if I did go with "lesbian", would you tell me that I'm really "bisexual" if (hypothetically) I were to admit to jonesing for dick every now & again?

Dammit all. The whole issue swirling around what makes one person one thing and another something else altogether is fucked. Severely fucked. And not in the good way either.

And oh yeah ... I did admit to having sexual thoughts of Steve in a post on the board. Whatcha gonna do about that? Add me to the Bad List for being an average, libidinous human? *rolls eyes*

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[sigmaration.livejournal.com]

i still love you. no matter who or what you are.

[mom-o-cass.livejournal.com]

i had this amazing aunt who died ten years ago. she was/is one of my greatest heroes and i thank Goddess every day for her.

when i was 19, i had a crush on an older woman at school. i didn't understand it. it really freaked me out to be honest.

I told my aunt Eileen becuase i trusted her. What she told me still rings true in my mind and heart. She gave me a long talk about how you love who you love. it doesn't matter if it a man or a woman. you love "People, not parts". then she said, "well, ok, you'd probably like the parts but you fall in love with a person, boobs or dick"(she was so eloquent :) )

the next day i spoke to the woman at school, and we dated for about 6 months. and i understood. i still live by that today. Yes, i am married to man. but we have a very special freindship and relationship. he and are close..and i dont know if it will last forever. but i love him for his heart mind and soul.

before i met him i was with Joyce for three years...
tis funny, we ended meeting and marrying men the same year. :)

i don't know if this makes any sense Carly, but you seem like such a lovely amazing lady and it bothered me that anyone would dare giving you any crap.

peace,
jenne(tish)