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I'd picked that book up in 1993, and highlighted many of the questions over the years. Now, almost 10 years later, I'm picking random questions from the book, and posing them to you, the readers. The great thing is, these aren't "yes" or "no" questions - you have to put some thought into them. And since they can get a bit involved, I will only post a few at a time. :)
{The way they are numbered may look odd, but they are numbered according to their numbering in the book.}

5) Would you feel unfaithful if you had frequent sexual daydreams about someone other than your partner? If your partner were having such fantasies, would you want to know about it? Why?

I wouldn't feel unfaithful, personally. Probably because I know that it's one thing to dream about getting naked with someone and actually doing it. Besides, I'm not one to chase after otherwise-attached people, and I'm not one to hurt my partner. If my partner were having such fantasies - that's her business. I don't care if she's dreaming of fucking Angelina Jolie eight ways to Sunday, that's her private fantasy life. And sometimes fantasies are best kept to oneself.

24) If you and your lover were in a hotel room with a squeaky bed and walls so thin that you could hear voices in the next room, how much would it affect your lovemaking? What if you faced the same conditions at a friend's house?

I don't think it would affect things too much. We'd probably just put a sheet on the floor & fuck there, and I'd probably be gagged cos I do tend to get noisy. (Mmmmmm, kinky sex ... hehe) As for the second part of the question - been there, done that. It's called visiting Kellie's place. In that situation, I kept my hand over my mouth ... but I still got a bit loud.

33) If you wanted to have sex and your partner didn't, would you rather have your partner rebuff your advances or go through the motions for your benefit?

I'd rather have my partner tell me "No. Not tonight." rather than just go through with it to appease me. I can always masturbate, and that way, there's no awkwardness the next morning. I wouldn't want my lover to feel like she *has* to do something because I ask for it, and vice versa.

129) Do you think you would ever enjoy having your lover pretend to be someone else during lovemaking? If so, what "make-believe" role might appeal to you? Would you be willing to pretend to be another person if it would excite your lover?

You know, I don't know. I might, but it's hard to say. I'd have nothing against the whole "doctor/nurse" or "teacher/student" RPG if we were both into the idea. And yes, I'd be willing to pretend to be someone else if it excited my lover. If she wants me to be Angelina, fine. Just don't expect me to get all borderline-incestuous with family or marry Greaseball Thornton. If she wants me to be Steve, give me the hair gel and the strap-on. ;)

If you peeked behind the cuts, you know entirely too much about me. You poor people. I'll chip in what I can afford for your therapy and/or mental flossings. *smirk*

Date: 2002-11-23 08:41 pm (UTC)
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Good :)

As for #129, while I've never tried RPG, I'm not against it once in a while.

And, yeah ... as long as you don't mind Steve as a Russian Jew. :-x

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