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Jul. 9th, 2004 10:44 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
hiddenmuseThey say that the truth hurts - and it seems to especially hurt when it comes in the form of another person experiencing an isolated incident of the moods that you live with on a regular basis.
When you see someone hurting in a way that you've hurt, it's scary as hell, because you're seeing a less-than-stellar side of your personality being reflected in them. You're seeing what they've seen - and probably still see on a regular basis. It's hard to witness that, so hard.
I don't know what to say, afraid that if I say the wrong thing, both of us will seem to go over the edge to the other person. I'll over-react to this person's perfectly normal reaction to their experience, which will only cause things to spiral into weirdness.
And that is never cool.
And I just want to say that I'm sorry to the person that I may have hurt from my misunderstandings today. I can be as much of a self-absorbed idiot as anyone else, and I'm sorry if I'd upset you in any way. I love you. :)
When you see someone hurting in a way that you've hurt, it's scary as hell, because you're seeing a less-than-stellar side of your personality being reflected in them. You're seeing what they've seen - and probably still see on a regular basis. It's hard to witness that, so hard.
I don't know what to say, afraid that if I say the wrong thing, both of us will seem to go over the edge to the other person. I'll over-react to this person's perfectly normal reaction to their experience, which will only cause things to spiral into weirdness.
And that is never cool.
And I just want to say that I'm sorry to the person that I may have hurt from my misunderstandings today. I can be as much of a self-absorbed idiot as anyone else, and I'm sorry if I'd upset you in any way. I love you. :)
