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hiddenmuse ([personal profile] hiddenmuse) wrote2003-07-23 05:43 pm

Back again

I know, it's been a while since I'd last posted. Here I am again, finally ready to talk.

Yeah, there are some things going on with my family - and I didn't really feel like discussing them because things were still up in the air and rather hush-hush. Also, I didn't want it to seem like I was throwing a pity party for myself or something.

Recently, my stepdad found that he had a lump on a testicle. He got it checked out, and the doctor (urologist) told him that it was a tumor. So, about 2 weeks ago, my stepdad went in for surgery to have the testicle removed (orchiectomy, I think it's called), and to get the tumor checked out by Pathology. In the meantime, he had to also undergo blood work and a CAT scan, to make sure that there wasn't any spreading of the cancer.

Before I went on vacation last Friday, I got word that the tumor was benign, that there wasn't any other cancer in his body, and that he'd be undergoing chemotherapy as a preventative measure. His prognosis looks good, and being a guy, his biggest concern with undergoing chemo is losing his hair. (Go figure!)

So, yeah, life was definitely in the balance for a little while there. I had to deal with my feelings about this whole situation - which did put things into perspective for me.


I will write later about my trip out west - the good, bad and indifferent. But now, I should be heading home from work!

[identity profile] pangaea23.livejournal.com 2003-07-23 04:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad that your stepfather is ok... and I'm sorry that you had to go through such a terrible ordeal on your own (assuming you weren't discussing it with ANYONE, but just us.)

*hugs*

[identity profile] sigmaration.livejournal.com 2003-07-23 06:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I missed you so much. I hope we get a chance to catch up further tonight.

[identity profile] denimdoll.livejournal.com 2003-07-23 07:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you're back - I missed your posts.

I'm sorry you had such a scare with your stepdad, but I'm glad everything turned out okay.

[identity profile] rosesandvine.livejournal.com 2003-07-24 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
Im sorry to hear about your Dad, but glad to know his prognosis is good! I'll keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.

[identity profile] redaryl.livejournal.com 2003-07-24 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad your stepdad will be ok. Take care.