you are welcome to my FU icon, not sure if anyone else offered you one as I didn't read all the comments. I'm sorry you got that from your mom, parents can be maddening. My own reject me regularly and I have never been able to understand it. They didn't even send me a birthday card and have not called me in months and months. I'm always the one to try and frankly I'm tired of it.

So, ya. I have no good advice, only mean icons and supportive hugs!

:)